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真正有稳定感的人，其实是极少数
The people who truly possess a sense of stability are actually very few
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因为稳定感的来源,是踏踏实实的人生阅历
Because the source of stability comes from a solid life experience
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首先是混沌的阶段
The first stage is the chaotic phase
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随大流,不知道自己跟其他人的区别
Where they have no idea about their difference from others
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别人说什么好,他就去追逐什么
They chase after whatever others consider good
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偶尔会不安,但整体算是无知无虑
Occasionally feeling unsettled but overall ignorant and carefree
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第二个是觉醒的阶段
The second stage is the
searching phase
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意识到自己想要的东西和社会指导的不一样了
Where they realize that what they want differs from societal expectations
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但还不清楚具体目标是什么
But they are unsure of their specific goals
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要通过什么方式去达成
How to achieve it
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所以会进入一个试错的过程
They enter a trial-and-error process
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尝试、挫败、再次尝试、再次挫败
Trying and failing,trying and failing again
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直到最后找到一个心安的答案
Until they find a peaceful answer
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等这两个阶段都走过去了
Once both of these stages have been traversed
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一个人身上的内核就慢慢建立了
The core of a person gradually forms
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他知道他是谁、想要什么生活、该做些什么
He knows who he is,What kind of life he wants,and what he should do
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回头看,走过的每条路都连了起来
Looking back,every path they have walked connects
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做过的每件事、成也罢、败也罢、都有了意义
Every action they have taken Whether successful or not,becomes meaningful
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所谓稳定感，就来源于此
The so-called sense of stability comes from this
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所有的稳定都源于前期的摸索和动荡
All stability originates from the earlier period of exploration and turmoil
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源于破碎和痛苦、源于放弃和抉择
It arises from brokenness and pain,from letting go and making choices
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别担心,等我们走过这场内心的兵荒
Don't worry,for once we have gone through this internal chaos
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温柔和稳定感都会慢慢浮现
Gentleness and a sense of stability will gradually emerge
